Dogs Fighting?


Dogs Fighting?

Yesterday was not a good day for us over here. Well, it started out like any other day. Work, run some errands, put groceries away. You know, the usual stuff. However, once I started putting things up, that’s when it started, my dogs fighting. This might not seem like such a big deal, and for those that have dogs, know they do fight. However, this wasn’t a typical dog fight.

I don’t know who started it, or why. All I know is, I was reorganizing my pantry to fit my many items from shopping and I heard it. The growling, the tearing into the carpet, all that. I walked around the corner to see my two big females trying to eat each other. And this was the dog fight of the year, because it was awful!

So, why do dogs fight? What starts it? How can you stop it? How can you prevent it?

Why Dogs Fight.

I’ve said this before, and I’ll say it again, dogs are like kids. They fight over toys, food, best spot and the most affection. Dogs want what the other dog has. Even though they both have the same thing, they don’t know it. So, dogs fighting over these things is typical.

Now, usually, the same sex will fight more than the opposite sex. Meaning, if you have two females, you’re more than likely going to experience this at least once. Two males, same thing. I know, it doesn’t make it any easier knowing what starts the dogs fighting. But, knowing the basics can help you to prevent them later on.

Now, Atlas is very territorial over her things. Her bones and toys. When we took Muse in, the first thing I did was grab up all the bones. I already knew that a fight would break out over the bones. What I didn’t realize, was that it would also break out over the toys.

How The Dogs Fighting Starts.

This is pretty basic, this one. The dogs fighting starts when one dog has something the other dog wants. Like right now for example; no, a fight won’t break out, but it could if I left the room. Muse has one knuckle (a bone) and Atlas has another. I decided that they haven’t had chew time in a long time, and dogs have to have chew time. If I walk away though, they’ll fight over the bones. So, I have to be present during this time.
Dog toy

They’ll also fight over toys and sometimes food, but more often treats. If Atlas has a toy that Muse wants, a fight might break out. Or, if one thinks the other has a better or different food, again, a fight can break out.

That’s about it for how the fighting starts initially. Over the basics that any dog, and, honestly, human wants. Food, toys (something to occupy the mind and get some energy out), territory (this is my space, not yours) and affection (we all need love).

How Can You Stop Dogs Fighting?

This is the hard part, stopping the fighting once it breaks out. Now, here’s a very, very important tip – Do not, under any circumstances, put yourself between the fight. No hands, no legs, no body part. Why? You’ll get seriously hurt. DogsInjury instincts take over during a dog fight. They don’t mean to hurt you, but they’re trying to establish who is better during this time. You’re simply in the way if you try to get between it.

Breaking it up is a different story. When there’s two people, then it’s easier. One person is harder and honestly, we’re all still trying to figure this out as dog owners. We’ll get to that in a moment.

Two people scenario – each of you grabs one dog by their back legs and lifts them up like a wheel barrow. You back them away from the other dog with their legs. This separates the dogs and helps stop the fight. You still need to separate the dogs right after, to allow them to cool down.

This is very important. Separate the dogs to allow them to cool down.

Stopping The Fight With Only One Person?

Here’s the kicker in this whole article, how can you stop dogs fighting if you’re the only one there? This was me yesterday. I know the two person method well, I’ve had to break my dogs up three other times before. Each person grabs legs and backs them up.

Attempting this by myself yesterday did not work. Once I successfully pulled one dog off, the other came at her. Then, I would try the other dog and nope, same thing. All I was doing was allowing one dog to get the upper hand over the other.

I attempted chokers to pull them apart, but my arms weren’t long enough to really separate them. So, again, I was only allowing one dog power over the other by trying to lift one off at a time.

I called my vet after the fight ended, and she suggested sticking a finger in the dominant dogs butt. And, while the shock of that might work, that kind of grosses me out. Second, how the heck am I going to stick my finger in each dogs butt at the same time? Again, my arms just aren’t long enough.

My Theory To Stop Dogs Fighting Alone.

I have a theory – in order to pull one dog off, I have to be able to get that dog out of the bite range safely. Since posting this question online last night, I’ve had a lot of good suggestions. Shock collars (even though I’m not a fan), someone else said the butt theory. However, I’ve been going over the scenario over and over in my mind. If I can somehow break them up alone, I can stop the fight.

I have a throw on my couch that is very strong. One side is faux fur, the other side a suede. It’s heavy, but easy toSack of potatoes manipulate and fold. I think, next time, I’m going to throw that blanket over the lighter of the two dogs. Wrapping one of them up in it like a sack of potatoes and haul her to the bathroom and shut the door.

The hard part of this? Getting that blanket around the one with all the teeth attached to the other dog. But, I can drag while the one is biting as long as I can get that door between them. Out of every scenario, this one seems like it will be the best.

Preventing Dogs Fighting.

It’s a difficult time when you have to face this situation. Especially when everything you’ve ever thought you knew to break it up doesn’t work. Water on the dogs, loud noises, grabbing one up – all of it. Nothing worked yesterday, nothing! And, I tried for 20 minutes. It was the longest fight I’ve ever seen between two dogs. Even my vet was amazed that no one was seriously injured. Frankly, I am too. Because they sure were trying.

Usually, in the past, it’s a spat that lasts just a few seconds and it’s done. This time, nope. And every trick I’ve learned in the past didn’t work.

To prevent fights, keep whatever is the trigger away. That’s the first step. So, since it started over toys, those are now up and out of reach. If the fighting starts over affection, be sure you’re giving them both the exact same affection. If need be, do it separately. One in each room and give them the love they crave.

If the fighting starts over food, separate them during meal time. Whatever it takes, it will make life much easier if you simply separate them from whatever is starting the fighting. If you can of course. If it just starts to start, then they’re establishing dominance, and in this case, you’re not pack leader. You need to be.

Starting A New Regime.

Today was the start of a new day. We started a new regime of preventing the fighting. Yesterday, the toys were all put up. Now, bones and toys are only coming out when I’m supervising. I know when they start to tense up and I can stop it before it starts. But, around the corner, I just couldn’t see them.
Walking two dogs

Also, they both went on a very long walk/run. We went for an hour. By the time we were coming home, I was dragging them both along. Dogs need exercise, so they both got it first thing.

They haven’t fought over food, so I’m not too concerned about that yet. If they do, then I’ll rearrange that as well. Getting two dogs to live in harmony might seem like a task, but if it helps prevent injuries, so be it. I’ll do whatever it takes to keep my babies safe and not fighting. Same as I do for my kids. Their toys were taken away long ago already. Now, they have no toys anymore.

Whatever you do, watch them to see what the triggers are so you can prevent it in the future. That’s the best prevention out there!

How do you prevent your dogs from fighting? How do you break it up when it starts? Share your best practices for everyone else to help them out!

6 thoughts on “Dogs Fighting?

  1. Hey,

    Wow, this is a very important article to share. I know a few people who have dogs and they would certainly benefit from you sharing your experiences of dogs fighting. So, I am going to share this with all the people who I know with a dog because they will come across this one day, if they haven’t already.

    It’s great that you helped us to understand how, why and when a dog fight is about to take place. We know what signs to keep a look out and we’ll be able to prevent it before it happens.

    If my friends have any burning questions or issues then I will advise them to get in touch.

    Thank you for sharing such a powerful article.

    All the best,


    1. Thanks Tom,
      I’m actually going to do a follow up to this article tomorrow to help others out. I have a few things to get first, but tomorrow’s article will be great. But, glad you liked this one. I’m always learning, and always trying to make sure my dogs are well behaved, but as we dog owners know, things can go wrong quickly. And, that’s exactly what happened to me the other day. I’m just glad no one was seriously hurt, and they’re okay even today. The small bites they had are healing nicely, and you wouldn’t even know there was a fight if you saw them today.

      Thanks for sharing!


  2. I can only relate to dog fighting in relation to cats. The exact same reasons for starting a fight include toys, food, or affection. However, separating cats is probably a lot safer than breaking up a dog fight! I had to laugh at the idea of sticking your finger in a dog’s butt! Great article and very entertaining:)

    1. Kathy,

      It was comical that the butt thing was even mentioned in some videos, and by my vet. I get why people do it, it’s a stun factor, but, I will abstain from using that method I think. Putting my finger in my dogs butts is not something that would make me look back at my day and remotely enjoy it. I have to admit, it is hard to break up a dog fight, but I’ve also had to break up cat fights, and those aren’t any easier to be honest. Cats are all over the place when they fight, and nails and teeth almost always connect with the human. In dogs, at least they’re in one place while they fight, you just have to dip and dodge their bite if they turn on you.
      Stressful either way you look at it though.

      I’m glad you got a kick out this! Thanks for stopping by and reading!


  3. Wow – Enjoyed reading your post and suggestions to prevent dog fights. Just like you…even I have my reservations on “Sticking the finger in dog’s butt” to stop dog fights….not sure if that would actually pacify them or provoke them more.

    I was curious to know – How about reading the dog’s body language or behaviour to predict such dog fights? I am not sure if it is easy to read dogs but I am sure they may display something like standing straight out or tail tucking etc?

    1. Satz,

      The best way to break up a dog fight is to prevent the dog fight. Yes, dogs will usually display some sort of body language before it starts. However, in both the latest instances in the home, I wasn’t in the room to stop it before it started. The first time, I was around the corner and heard the snarling and that’s when I came around the corner to find my dogs deep into it. The second time, I was downstairs attempting to reset my router for the internet when I heard it start upstairs.
      Had I been present for both to start, then I could directly know the cause of both fights with absolute certainty, and do everything in my power to prevent the fights. I know when my dogs are feeling anything, I’m very good at reading body language with them. But, you do have to be present for that I’m afraid.

      In most instances, dogs actually don’t fight when the owner isn’t around. This isn’t true of my dogs. They fight when I’m not around. When I’m around, they actually always give me the sideways glance when they’re feeling something that I don’t approve of. Meaning, if Atlas is trying to provoke Muse, and Muse starts to get agitates, she actually will watch me very closely, and almost tuck her head like she knows she’s about to be in trouble. Maybe, she knows this because she wants to snarl at Atlas for being annoying? Who knows? What I do know, is this is the point in which I tell Atlas to “Relax”. When she doesn’t listen, and Muse starts to tuck her tail, this is when I get more commanding with Atlas, and say in a very stern voice, “Atlas, Relax!”

      This was this morning when I first woke up. Atlas wakes up and wants to play. Muse doesn’t want anything to do with it. When I’m present, I can see the signs and stop it before it starts. What stresses me out though, is when I have to leave the room at any time and they’re not sleeping like they are now. This is when I get stressed out. To the point now, where I make Atlas stay in the bathroom with me while I shower.

      So yes, to answer your question – dogs always exhibit signs of distress. Standing very still, staring down the other dog, tail out straight, back hackles raised, head down, but still staring. These are all the beginning signs of a fight that I look for.

      Thanks for stopping by and reading this article!


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